LET'S GET KINKY
LET'S GET KINKY
ETHICS.
Dom/me Responsibilities.
Findom Psychology
https://google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201910/the-growing-world-financial-domination%3famp… https://google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-excess/201612/the-psychology-financial-dominatrixes%3famp
https://medium.com/moments-of-passion/the-psychology-of-financial-domination-99b911805317… https://google.com/amp/s/silenthour.wordpress.com/2018/03/24/findom-the-psychology-of-submission/amp/… - submissive guide
BDSM & THERAPY
https://erismartinet.medium.com/psychosexual-domination-and-its-healing-enriching-potential-80ed020fa01b… https://google.com/amp/s/www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychological-aspects-of-bdsm-0606124/amp/… https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=BDSM+and+therapy&hl=en&as_sdt=0&as_vis=1&oi=scholart#d=gs_qabs&u=%23p%3DEIT_0j0-An4J… https://mylatherapy.com/bdsm-kink-friendly-therapy/
D/S RELATIONSHIP PSYCHOLOGY
IMPACT PSYCHOLOGY
https://tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2020.1767025… https://google.com/amp/s/www.vice.com/amp/en/article/j5e833/your-brain-on-bdsm-why-getting-spanked-and-tied-up-makes-you-feel-high… https://medium.com/sexography/7-psychological-reasons-behind-your-bdsm-cravings-that-will-increase-your-self-acceptance-a7bf4bd33751… https://getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=74318… https://google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health%3famp… https://submissivefeminist.com/punishment-management/
HISTORY & PSYCHOLOGY OF CUCKOLDING
https://www.theroot.com/the-racist-roots-of-cuck-the-white-supremacists-favo-1797868917
https://google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201910/the-appeal-some-cuckolding%3famp… https://missavazhang.com/blog/135 https://tabooless.net/stories/paraphilias/what-the-cuck-the-psychology-history-behind-cuckoldry/… https://medium.com/moments-of-passion/lets-talk-about-cuckoldry-16b7a749528a
FEMINIZATION & SISSIFICATION
P*RN ADDICTION/EXHAUSTION
medicalnewstoday.com/articles/porn-addiction… https://fightthenewdrug.org/watching-porn-and-feeling-lazy-and-unmotivated/… https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/… https://psychguides.com/behavioral-disorders/porn-addiction/… https://google.com/amp/s/www.antidopamine.com/stop-porn/cure-ed/sexual-exhaustion-symptoms-recovery/amp/
AFTERCARE
https://swell.damewellness.co/bdsm-aftercare/ https://menshealth.com/sex-women/a29341534/sexual-aftercare/… https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-aftercare https://lelo.com/blog/bdsm-beginners-aftercare/… https://domsubliving.com/10-ways-better-aftercare/… https://lovense.com/sex-blog/kink-bdsm/aftercare… https://kimatwood.com/aftercare-an-important-though-often-overlooked-step/… https://cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a30443633/aftercare-bdsm/
https://hellogiggles.com/news/what-is-aftercare-bdsm-fifty-shades/… https://google.com/amp/s/qmunicatemagazine.com/2020/02/07/the-importance-of-aftercare-in-bdsm/amp/… https://google.com/amp/s/amp.mindbodygreen.com/articles/why-you-should-practice-aftercare-every-time-you-have-sex… - not BDSM exclusive https://womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a33397578/bdsm-aftercare/
S-TYPE: HOW TO COMMUNICATE YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE
TOXIC DOMINATION - KNOW WHATS CROSSING THE LINE
https://kinkoutloud.com/single-post/2018/08/28/toxic-doms-who-are-these-assholes-and-how-can-you-avoid-them-in-the-bdsm-scene… https://kinkoutloud.com/single-post/2017/11/17/9-Entirely-Un-Sexy-Risks-of-BDSM-and-How-to-Avoid-Them-Part-1… https://kinkoutloud.com/single-post/2018/05/11/An-In-Depth-Guide-to-Negotiation-in-BDSM-Relationships
FIND LOCAL EVENTS & CLASSES
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